Earlier this week I was at the 3P UK 2016 conference, listening to and connecting with some amazing speakers, psychologists, consultants and coaches around the subject of ‘the human operating system’. I was particularly moved by one talk where the speaker, Dr Dicken Bettinger, likened self-limiting beliefs to illusionary walls, and did a particularly good impression of a mime moving his hands around the invisible walls around him. I have personally felt this wall in the past,